Is It A Girl’s Duty To Pleasure Her Partner While She’s On Her Period?
Do you feel it is your duty to pleasure your man while on your period? How do you feel about the expectation of some men that you will give them head?
I’m going to get this message out there hard and fast before I even get properly started OK? It is NEVER your DUTY to pleasure ANYONE.
If you’re going to pleasure a man, it should always be because you want to. Forget the period aspect of this question: would you have sex with someone or give head to a man just because he made you feel it was your duty? No. The answer is (or should be) no. Because luckily for us, we live in a civilised, first world, 21st century country where we have been educated enough to know that it is not our duty to please or pleasure anyone.
Re-adding the period part of the question into this debate: I don’t know about you but, personally, if I’m on my period I’m grumpy, crampy and emotional. If my man started pressuring me to give him head at that point, he’d probably find himself without one. A head, that is because I’d have snapped it off in emotional, hormonal-fuelled rage.
I’m not saying don’t do it. I’m just saying that if you do go for it, it should be because you WANT to, because you take pleasure in pleasuring your man. And if you’re not feeling it, he should respect that and man the hell up. Come on now. A week is not that long a time, and some people just don’t like giving head!
So gentlemen, if you’re reading this: give your lady some space. Don’t pressure her and don’t “subtly” push her face in that direction. Trust me, she won’t appreciate it. If you want it just mention that it would be nice and then leave it up to her to decide. Maybe she’ll be happy to go down on you, maybe she won’t. And if it’s the latter, go buy her a big bar of chocolate. That’ll keep you in the good books for next week, when she’s back in action…